Are You Looking for a Lover, or Recruiting a Devout Follower? A Deeper Investigation Into Toxic Intimate Pattern Recognition, Familiarity Ad

Are you hopelessly attracted to the mirror image of patterns you claim you want to escape? And beneath that: What if the person you call “my type” is simply someone unusually qualified to recognize, tolerate, reinforce, or worship the version of you that you have mistaken for yourself?